How cell phone affect our relationship

How the cell phone affect the relationship

Everyone has seen the moody, withdrawn kid with music blasting out of his white earbuds, or the girl rapidly texting on her phone. The youth of today are constantly immersed in technological advancements that promote nonstop communication and instant gratification through smart phones. I believe this kind of phenomenon are related to smartphone use, and we should pay more attention on it.

Nowadays, people are more and more use smartphone in

different aspect, using it in education, hygiene, business and

entertainment. As Liberty Voice write” A new study claim that

smartphones affect the ability for parents to look after their

children. It also shows that becoming more reliant also addicted to the new technology” ( Alexandria Ingham, March 11, 2014,

Liberty Voice, http:// http://www.77cn.com.cn/2014/03/smartphone

-affect-ability-to-parent-childern/) in his research, researcher found that majority of parents didn’t talk to their kids even eye

contact with them during the meal. In my opinion, parents are

the best teacher of the children, children are like to mimic the

action that what their parents did. These behavior caused

problems between parents and children. For example, Mu cousin was used to less talk with his parents, his parents are always

using the phone to work, entertainment and social contact. When I visited his family and ate outside, it is boring that no one talk but playing smartphone. However, my cousin become bright and talkative, because he is studying abroad and have been making a lot of friends. Smartphone has negative influence on

relationship between parents and kids.

Also, kids live in an environment can cause some personality defect, because parents was always have argument. There is

a research that want to find out whether the cell phone will

influence the conversation. and relationship between couples ”The study found that couples who could see the cell phone felt

that their relationship became worse after the study.

They also believed that their partners showed less understanding and emotional support during their conversation. This finding was strongest when couples were” (Author: Andrew K. Przybylski and Netta Weinstein,Date: 2013 Volume: 30 Issue: 3 Pages:

237-246,Journal: Journal of social and personal relationships). If parents are not friendly to each other, they are not in good mood to get along with children and pay attention to their children. For example, If couples always stay with my cell phone, it will be

lack that learn more about each other. It will cause some

mistakes and unhappy. I believe that cell phone has negative

affection on our live.

In conclusion, I believe cell phone has negatively impacted our

relationship because it detaches us from what is happening

around us, obstructs communication, and spreads the concept of instant gratification. Society must be able to utilize technology

while not allowing it to impede social interactions, particularly for those who are easily influenced during our formative years. Our world must learn to embrace technology without allowing it to

negatively impact the creation of functional adults in society.