礼物--黄维仁博士亲密之旅嘉言录

黄维仁博士佳言录 Messages of Heart from Dr. Wei-Jen Huang 献给《亲密之旅》的天使们——因为您们，使我们有机会学习、成长 并开始全新的生活……

Helen & Grace

生命是一份来自上天的特殊礼物永远值得我们好好珍惜

Life is a precious gift from Heaven……

worthy of tender loving care

人最可贵的是——有一颗谦卑

愿意学习的心Ranking high among the virtuesis a humble and eachable heart

一颗受了伤，还愿意不断去学习、 不断去爱、不断寻求医治的心 是一颗最美的心

The most beautiful heart, is a heart that in spite of being hurt, still keep on learning, loving and growing.

爱就是彼此珍惜

To love is to Cherish Each Other

倾听就是爱，了解中有医治

Listening is Loving, There’s Healing in Empathy

只有当一个人感受到爱的时候 他才会努力超越自己去做发自内心的有持久性的改变

Only when a person feel loved, from his heart he will seek the real, thorough, and permanent positive change.

当我们愿意去爱，去标明别人的

善意和长处时 就看见了上帝慈爱的面容

When we are willing to love, to highlight other people’s good intention and efforts, we will see the smiling face of the loving God.

我们可以让别人变成天使 也可以让别人变成恶魔

We have the power to bring out either the bestor the worst in others

爱是投其所好，而非——给己所要

To love to is give others what they need,but not to impose what I need onto them.

当我们没有感受到爱时， 并不代表别人没有试着爱我们;

When we don’t feel loved, do not draw the wrong conclusion that others have not tried to love us

当我们觉得受伤时，并不等于

别人故意要伤害我们

When we feel hurt, it does not mean that others have done it on purpose

天下人间最难

发展出的能力是 看事情的角度和观点The most difficult ability to develop, is to perceive the world and people from multiple angles and a loving heart.

了解冲突，寻求双赢

Understand the underlying cause of conflict, strife for win-win resolution

学习成为不断标明别人长处和善意的

高手Learning to become an expert in highlighting other people’s good intention, virtues and strength

解决伤害和愤怒

最好的办法是——饶恕

The most effective way to heal our emotional wounds is ….. Forgiveness